Looking for a job is one of the most frustrating and anxiety-producing experiences that we have in our adult lives, especially if the search stretches on longer than anticipated. If you’re one of the many people who is finding that your search is taking months longer than what was typical in previous job markets, here are five ways to make this maddening process easier on yourself. 1: Don’t take it personally. It’s tempting to take it personally when you’re rejected for a job that you thought you were perfect for or when you don’t hear back from an employer after they promised they’d call. Read more.